People often feel tempted to measure their value by what they do—like their job, achievements, or productivity—and by what they own, such as possessions, money, or status symbols. This happens because society frequently associates success and worth with these external markers. For example, a high-paying job or owning a fancy car can seem like clear proof of success and personal value. However, this perspective can be limiting and misleading. It ties self-worth to things that can change or be taken away, rather than to intrinsic qualities like kindness, creativity, resilience, or the quality of relationships. It’s a common psychological trap where identity becomes linked to external validation rather than inner values and character. Would you like ideas on how to shift focus away from these external measures toward a more fulfilling sense of self-worth?