The Bible does not specifically mention dating, but it does provide principles that Christians should follow during the time before marriage. Here are some of the key principles:
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Separation from the worlds view on dating: Christians should separate from the worlds view on dating because Gods way contradicts the worlds.
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Discovering the character of a person: Christians should find out if the person has been born again in the Spirit of Christ and if he or she shares the same desire toward Christ-likeness.
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Not marrying an unbeliever: Christians should not marry an unbeliever because this would weaken their relationship with Christ and compromise their morals and standards.
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Keeping oneself pure: Christians should keep themselves pure and avoid premarital sex.
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Finding a life partner: The ultimate goal of dating or courting is finding a life partner.
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Trusting in the Lord: Christians should trust in the Lord with all their heart and lean not unto their own understanding.
It is important to note that not every relationship is meant to result in marriage, and Christians should not assume that the person they are dating is their future spouse. Ultimately, the purpose of dating should be whatever God deems. Christians should continuously pursue the Lord in their relationships, and the aspects of living out such a call can be very dynamic.