A head pusher is a term used to describe someone who forcefully or subtly pushes their sexual partners head down towards their genitals to receive oral sex from them. Head pushers are usually men, but they can sometimes be women as well. This behavior is considered selfish and can be hurtful to the partner. Communication is key to addressing the problem without killing the mood in the room. If the partner is not comfortable with the behavior, they should communicate their feelings to the head pusher to make them understand that its a problem. Failure to do so means the head pusher will continue with the behavior. The head pusher routine has been around for a long time and is influenced by porn.