An ENM relationship, or Ethical Non-Monogamy relationship, is a relationship style where partners consensually engage in romantic and/or sexual connections with multiple people simultaneously, with the full knowledge and agreement of everyone involved
. Unlike traditional monogamous relationships, ENM embraces multiple intimate relationships while emphasizing key principles such as:
- Consent: All parties agree to the relationship structure and activities.
- Communication: Open and honest dialogue to navigate emotions and boundaries.
- Transparency: Clear expression of intentions and feelings.
- Respect: Consideration for all partners’ needs and boundaries
ENM is an umbrella term that includes various relationship forms such as polyamory (multiple loving relationships), open relationships, swinging, and more
. It differs from cheating because cheating involves secrecy and lack of consent, whereas ENM is based on ethical openness and mutual agreement
. People may choose ENM for diverse reasons, including personal growth, emotional fulfillment, or preference for relationship fluidity. ENM relationships can be hierarchical (with a primary partner) or non- hierarchical, and they prioritize emotional security and self-awareness among partners
. In summary, ENM is a consensual, ethical approach to non-monogamy that challenges traditional monogamous norms by allowing multiple romantic or sexual partnerships with honesty and respect for all involved