Red flags in a relationship are warning signs that indicate unhealthy or manipulative behavior. They can be signs of narcissism, aggression, victimization, or even abusive behavior. Here are some common red flags in a relationship:

• Excessive jealousy
• Frequent lying
• Criticizing or putting down your partner
• Unwillingness to compromise
• Infidelity
• Love bombing (rushing a new relationship forward too quickly)
• Controlling behavior
• Gaslighting (manipulating someone into doubting their own sanity)
• Isolating you from friends and family
• Refusing to take responsibility for their actions
• Physical or emotional abuse
• Addiction or substance abuse
• Lack of respect for boundaries
• Disrespectful or dismissive behavior towards your feelings
• Incompatibility in values or lifestyles

Its important to note that not every relationship problem is detrimental, but many of them can pile up and create an avalanche if left unchecked for too long. Knowing the difference between yellow and red flags can help you identify the right course of action. Trusting your instincts is one of the best ways to recognize these red flags. If you notice any of these red flags in your relationship, its important to address them with your partner and seek help if necessary.