The "talking stage" is a term used to describe an early pseudo-relationship that is full of texting, talking, and maybe even full-blown dates and hookups, but without any commitment. It is a poorly defined, vague idea that can be emotionally exhausting and intentionally ambiguous. The talking stage is a pre-dating phase that might precede a more serious relationship or can stretch on into indefinite situationship territory. It is an opportunity to get to know a potential partner, explore compatibility, and improve relationship skills. The talking stage usually begins once you and your crush are introduced to each other, and it can start in person, after you flirt and exchange numbers at a party, or once you match with someone on a dating app and start texting off the app. The talking stage helps you figure out if your crush is right for you, and you might chat about your background, beliefs, and interests to see if your vibes and values align. The talking stage can last anywhere from 2 weeks to 2 months, and how long it lasts depends on you and your crush.