When a friend loses their mom, it is important to offer sincere condolences and support. Begin with simple, heartfelt expressions like "I'm so sorry for your loss" or "She will be greatly missed. May I offer my deepest condolences?" Adding a personal touch, such as sharing a fond memory of their mom or a kind observation, can provide comfort. Also, let your friend know you are there for them, offering to listen, help, or just be present during this difficult time. Phrases such as "I know this is hard, but I’m here for you" or "Let me know if you need anything, I’m just a call away" can be very reassuring. It's also helpful to continue checking in with them in the days and weeks after the loss. Key comforting things to say include:

• "I’m so sorry for your loss."
• "Your mom was a wonderful woman, and I know how much she meant to you."
• "I have such fond memories of your mom."
• "Please know I am here to support you in whatever way you need."
• "If you want to talk or need help, just let me know."

Offering specific help, like bringing a meal or spending time together, can also be very meaningful.