Stephen Fry's husband is Elliott Spencer. They met in 2012 and got married in January 2015 in a private ceremony at a registry office in Norfolk. Elliott Spencer, born in 1987, is a comedian, writer, and photographer, and is nearly 30 years younger than Stephen Fry. Despite their age gap, they share a strong bond and love for each other, and Fry has described Spencer as the love and light of his life. The couple lives in Norfolk and has shared many experiences together, including travels and facing challenges like Fry's prostate cancer diagnosis with Spencer's support.