Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban split up after 19 years of marriage primarily due to struggles with intimacy, the distance caused by their demanding schedules, and a cooling off of their romantic relationship. Sources reveal that their affection for one another gradually diminished, turning their marriage into more of a roommate situation with a lack of intimacy. Keith Urban reportedly was unhappy in the marriage and initiated the separation, which left Nicole Kidman blindsided. She has been fighting to save the marriage and did not want the separation, while both have been living apart since the beginning of the summer of 2025. Family support has been important to Kidman during this difficult period.